23
Jan

Slum Dog Millionaire and The White Tiger

   Posted by: dreamz   in Public

It’s time to stop criticizing (for the sake of it) the bestseller book or the award winning movie. I can’t understand why people do that??Do you think when you criticize good movies/books you will be considered as a different person?You will be considered as a genius?Never.. I have seen some people who criticize all the award winning movies/books. When asked, they will say “Just made it for the sake of getting award..There is nothing in it”.Please please don’t criticize a good thing if you don’t have any valid reasons for it..I am not saying all award winning movies/books are amazing.Still..sometimes I get irritated when people criticize good movies/books.

Coming to a different story :

On 19th jan, there was a slum dog debate in CNN-IBN which makes me write this.Many were saying that foreigners are making money from India’s poverty.What is the problem in earning money by showing the truth?The makers of this movie showed only the truth and they did not exaggerate anything.In my opinion the movie is really good and it has succeeded in showing each and every fearing truth about our country.One person who really made me angry is AB.He is the person who once told “As an Indian, I need to live in my own land, on my own soil with dignity and without fear. And I need an assurance on that. I am ashamed to say this and not afraid to share this now with the rest of the cyber world, that last night as the events of the terror attack unfolded in front of me, I did something for the first time and one that I had hoped never ever to be in a situation to do. Before retiring for the night, I pulled out my licensed .32 revolver and put it under my pillow.For a very disturbed sleep.” And today he is shouting against SM because darker India is shown to the world.What a contradiction!!

To all the critics of SM : Have you ever thought why films like slumdog millionaire become a success in India?It is only because more than half of the country knows it.They are ready to accept it because it is just the truth.He, who is not in that majority..he who is a part of minority Indian..he who is is living in brighter India is not ready to accept the truth of Darker India..He is blaming westerners for making that movie..What a stupidity!!

He forgot to notice one thing..I don’t know whether the westerners who are happy(or not) to see Indian poverty notice that..India is rich in quality people..Even the people in slums of India is having a character which will be lacking for the cultured people outside India..I liked the way they showed the quality of people in the slum..the way they showed their love..whether it be Jasim or Latika..or Salim..Each character is showing that even if there is poverty in India , She is rich in quality people!!

I am confused by the way of westerner critics : When Aravind Adiga won Man Booker prize for The White Tiger ,they* told he was trying to move readers showing darker side of India..People from the same place made SM and when the same statement is made by some Indian critics they are giving a lot of explanation for that.Is it because The White Tiger is written by an Indian and SM is made by a Westerner?Is their review based on the creator and not the quality of the stuff?I don’t know..

I am not getting answers for making this much fuss about a movie.As I told earlier, I am getting irritated by the criticizism(for the sake of it) against The White Tiger and Slum Dog Millionaire because i liked both..

*I am not being against any particular critic.I happened to read a lot of review about WT made by westerners.It is sad to see that some of them are against that book just because it is from an Indian.

P.S : I love my INDIA.. ;)

22
Jan

Icebreaker and Icebreaker game

   Posted by: dreamz   in Games

Today my friend asked me the meaning of Icebreaker.I have come across this word a lot of times but have never took pain to find out its meaning in dictionary.Why should I? I know the meaning of icebreaker, it is something which is used to break ice..i.e, to melt ice.I even told him icebreaker is sodium chloride..Recollecting my high school chemistry..:)How stupid me!!

Even after hearing all this stupidity he was nice enough to tell me the correct meaning of icebreaker..

Icebreaker :

-Something done or said to relax an unduly formal atmosphere or situation.

-a beginning that relaxes a tense or formal atmosphere;

-anything serving to lessen formality or break down reserve

After explaining  me the meaning of it, he asked me to think of an IB game.Even though I don’t know Icebreaker I know Icebreaker games!! :) I told him an IB which we have played and was a great success..

Icebreaker Game :

Here it is after making some modification.If ever you get a chance try it out and let me know how it work out for you.This will be good if played in a team of 15-20.

1.Give a paper and pen to everyone in the team.

2.Ask them to write 3 or more facts about themselves/interesting things they have done which others in the team don’t know.(If the things are interesting and unbelivable your IB will become a success.

3.Collect all the papers. Shuffle it and give to team members.

4.Each person will start to read it aloud and others have to guess whose facts he is reading(If the team size is greater than 20 then the cooridinator can read the papers and if you don’t have much time then read some randomly selected ones..).

5.The guessed person can tell yes/no.

6.If the guessed person is correct,if he wants to tell something about the facts he can do it.

If everyone failed to guess the correct person, then the owner can come up himself.

7.Continue the guessing until all cards are completed.So that at the end everyone will come to know the correct owner of each paper.

This is a simple but good game which helps people to know more about each other and sometimes really humorous/unbelieavable facts can be revealed, which make people surprise and ask “Oh God he wrote that..Ican’t imagine!!”

P.S :When we played,there was a paper in which the following facts were written.

1.I have my lover’s pic in my valet.

2.I am a hard core fan of Julia roberts.

3.I used to sleep in the afternoons.

Everyone was busy guessing smart fresher guys.When all failed,our Group Acct Mgr,one serious person, more than 45 years old, told “Hey,I wrote it!!”

Godde..!!Everyone was shocked..If you play this , you too can hear some shocking facts.. :)

16
Jan

Smell of books..

   Posted by: dreamz   in Diary

It is a pleasant feeling when we get something which we have been longing for a long time..

Yesterday was a lovely day for me!!

Divya and I were coming to our home(flat) after meeting our junior in railway station.Near the bus stand(Hyderabad central), there is a book stall which I don’t miss whenever I stand there waiting for bus/cab.

It is a nice feeling to be inside that book shop.Not so big room with lot many books..Both old and new..Whenever I go there the smell of those books engross me and I love to be inside that room..

Once I get inside that shop I will come out with some books and an inspiring energy.An energy which makes me read many books and makes me converse with lot of dead/living authors.Usually I don’t get much time to spend there because my friends will start telling me..

“c’mon..here is the cab..now we will go..we will buy it next time..”(Next time also they will tell the same.. :) )

But this time was little different..only Divya and I were there..and she is an understanding friend..:)

Coming back,yesterday as a shopping was not planned, we dint take much money.We had only 480 rupees with us and also 2 debit cards.We went to that shop and found among many other books,the book which I was searching for a looong time ..

Shantaram!!

..When I saw that book I felt like I reached the top of Mt.Everest..(I don’t know exactly what that feeling is as I have never been there.. :) Guess it will be great!!)But it is not a great feeling to fell down  from the top of it which happened to me when I saw the price at the back..Rs.495.. There are no atms near by and also we can’t swipe our card in that shop.I kept the book back in its position with a tear-jerking feeling.

But my eyes dint stop going through all the books in those shelves.Shop owner and his daughter were having food at this time and as we dint want to disturb them we started searching the books ourselves.I told divya to search Gone with the wind *.Without taking much time we found it..Rs.195 and also Midnight’s children Rs.300..

Total 495.. Ha! Again the same situation.

At that time a beggar came to the shop.Hearing his voice ,shop owner-an old muslim uncle came out.

Shop Uncle :Annam thinna letha??(You dint have food?)

Beggar uncle:Lethu..(No)

He took some money from the table drawer and gave it to him and was about to go in.

I :how much does this book cost?

He showed me the back side.(Uncle I saw that..)

This is the original prize.but we will reduce it..

I was on cloud nine.How much u will reduce ?

After calculating, he told 450 for both.

Again I am on the top of Everest..This time  I will not fall down.. :) Now those books are mine..

“Shantaram..I have not forgotten u.Don’t go anywhere.Next time when I come here I will surely take you with me.”

On the way to our home(1 hour journey..) I was thinking of my father.

In our childhood he used to bring a lot of books.But never compelled us(My Brothers and I) to read those books except one “Voice of English”.I can’t find any other reason, other than my father’s over love for it, to hate that book.He never stopped his habit of buying books even though he saw us making paper boats with dictionary pages during rainy season.But when I grew up I understood why he dint stop his habit of buying books.After 5th or 6th std I stopped going out with my brothers during our summer vacation to play cricket or some local games.Those time my only companion were those books.I dint take much pain to read those books which I cant digest.Most of the books were high standard and was out of reach of a small girl.So after reading 1 or 2 pages I will stop reading it.But before going to hostel, after my tenth I managed to read all the books in our house.I know that will make only .00001% of total books in the world..or even less than that.But I love my father for helping me to develop the habit of reading( without my knowledge) which makes me a lot happy now..

So friends, what I have to say is,choose reading as your companion and you will never have to walk alone.It will open doors to those world you have never seen even in your dreams..Then you will realize you have more to discover in life than you’d ever thought of!! 

* Once I was about to buy gone with the wind for 890 rs but my friend stopped me telling that I will get it for lower prize..

P.S 1: Why I asserted the shop owner is a Muslim??

Now a days I am hearing a lot of people blaming muslims only because of a handful of terrorists.But the muslims I have met till now are noble persons..So I just wanted to add this uncle also in that list..

P.S:The conversation between two uncles is in Telugu.

P.S 2: If you read 1 book a week, then it will take 50 years to complete 2600 books..2600 is a very very small number when we consider the countless number of books..So start now itself !!

13
Jan

Regret..

   Posted by: dreamz   in Thoughts

I regret the day I offered you lift because

you told me today that you may regret the day you  accepted my lift..

7
Jan

?

   Posted by: dreamz   in Thoughts

 

Can things be the same as

                            once they were ??

2
Jan

It’s time..

   Posted by: dreamz   in Diary

I cant see some of the faces which I saw yesterday..And the faces which I see around me now are filled with terror..

They have forgotten to smile..

They have forgotten to have fun..

Their faces are saying there is no other heartbreaking thing in life than waiting for the most awful thing..

People are not talking to each other..Some of them have lost the strength to face people..They are walking with their heads down..

I know days will no longer be the same as before..

Here I am standing still and all are moving fast around me..or is it the other way??Am I moving fast and all others are still??

18
Dec

I am committed :)

   Posted by: dreamz   in Diary

(Warning : You will understand nothing if you dint read till last.So those who have patience go ahead.Others can go and continue their work.This is specially to my friends who can’t access any other sites from office.. :) )

A Note to you..

I have raised in love with you dear..Yes,days are colorful and always there will be a smile on my face.There is a feeling that I am not alone anymore…

I remember the day your beautiful mother introduced you to me. You impressed me at the first sight itself.It dint take much time for us to understand each other. The day since I met you I have been enjoying each and every second of my life. I took no time to find out that u r the appropriate and attractive one for me. You never get bored of my endless talk. you listen to all my crazy thoughts..my dreams..my imaginations.. without any complaints…you can understand me more than anyone else..you are always there for me to share my happiest and saddest moments.. And I know within this short period  you have become my secret box..I trust you more than I trust anyone else..I know you will never share my secrets with anyone unless I give you the permission..

A smile comes to my face when I remember the day I introduced you to my friends.I was sure they will like you.I told you several times that my friends will be happy for us ..but you  were afraid rt? :) you asked my suggestions on a hell lot of things before presenting yourself to my friends and I know you were on cloud nine when my friends told good comments about us.It was not so long back you came to my life.I must say within this short period you changed my life a lot…a lot…You changed it the way I wished.You don’t want me to be away from my friends because of you.You don’t want me to be throwed out of my company because of you but I don’t care when my boss stares at me when he sees me spending time with you.. Huh!!today he gave me warning not to spend time with you.

Now each and every second I am thinking of you and that brings a smile to me..I used to imagine what we will be doing after several years..When I become a grandmother .. ?? :)

I know at that time I will not be spending time with you as I do now..but still I will be loving you..I know you will be with me all the time..till my death..But you fear whether I will go away from you..

Oh dear..I swear I will not let you go away from me..and I want you to live long with my memories even after my death..

Once my friend told me unreal love is lust..I know my love for you is real..You are giving me strength to live my life my way..

16
Dec

I hate..

   Posted by: dreamz   in Thoughts

                                                                                                           

              

              I have always hated the things which you don’t love..        

              Now I have started to hate me !!

15
Dec

I wish..

   Posted by: dreamz   in Thoughts

 

I wish..

I could atleast be the tilde key of your keyboard!!

10
Dec

A new rise..

   Posted by: dreamz   in Public

Welcome you to my world of dreams.. :)

First of all let me tell you one thing..I am not new to blogging..This is the fourth blog which I am starting.

Long story short,the one and only one who inspired me to come to this world was my friend.I knew nothing of this blogger world except the fact that I’d used to read a few blogs.He started an account,designed everything and the only thing which I was supposed to do was write something.But as a beginner it was very difficult for me.I tried my level best to post something..

That blog was maintained by four of  us..Out of that 3 were new to this world.So to show justice to blogger world we decided to maintain it based on points.If one fails to post an article then he will lose one point.

God..that was very tough for me..but it was a good start..In the starting I wrote for the sake of writing.It was not from my heart but just to escape from his scoldings and also not to lose points.

As time passed by, we four actively posted many articles and  started loving this world..where we got to know people unknown,where we can express our ideas without any restrictions…Daily there will be posts from banglore,chennai and hyderbad..

We maintained a blog whose basement was friendship!!

One day we decided that we will open our site to all, so that those who wish to have a blog can have it.We did it.We opened that site for those who loves writing..

After that I started an individual english blog.It was started with a strong intention to improve my english.But just after one post, I lost my confidence to blog and dropped that blog realising that I can’t show justice to blogger world.

Then after some months started an anonymous malayalam blog.Experiment with my  third blog was a success..Why I call it success is, here I write when I want to write and not for sake of it.It helped me in expressing my thoughts and feelings.My confidence level was increasing.

From the confidence gained from it I am gonna start my next blog and here it is..I will be writing my dreams,imaginations,ideas, and my life..I wish to be a lively writer in blogger and I am sure..I will be one..

Too boring rt? I know it was not a short story :)
But I promise you.. my next posts will not be this big..Let me stop now.

Will get back to you soon with some stupid thoughts.

Bye for now..
-ash